Why Divorce Rate in India Increasing
66Divorce rate in india is steeply increasing as indian cities are devloping. In india no metro cities is likely to be Hyper metro cities with population of 20 millions. No other countries have this type of hyper metro cities. Now, rural indian are shifting to urban india in search of jobs and ample of opportunity provided by these cities. Now, india is one of the largest exporter of IT. And now millions of peoples work for IT companies and related companies like BPO, KPO etc. Now, females also do work like males in india. Now, divorce rate in india is also increasing.
Rate of Divorce in India
From past one decade divorce rate in india is increasing, but it is not that high as compared to U.S. Unites states divorce rate is almost 50% but in india it is world lowest 1.1%. On rural india divorce rate also very low. but now in urban india divorse rate is shooting.
Very low divorce rate in india. Help childrens raise without trouble. In europe peoples wonder how indian do arrange marriage. But fact is most indian do arrange marriage. And this type of marriage don't break as easy as love marriage. Their are various causes of divorce in india. It differs from European countries. Indian have to much pressure to run family properly. and most of them don't believe in second marriage. if nay dispute happen then both bridge and groom family sit and sort out the problem.
In metro cities like delhi and banglore rate of divorce increased more then 50%. Number of cases of divorce is alarming. And these peoples are searching affordable divorce lawyer. Also, Highest rise of divorce cases is in IT and related industry.
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Very poor article.It has old data.
As per data/facts the overall divorce rate in India over the years has been around 1%.
But in metropolitan cities like Delhi/Mumbai/Bangalore/Chandigarh/Chennai etc it has been 7 % .
And in Metro cities/urban India in the last 5 years it has been more than 15%.
It is expected to increase to 25% in the next 3-5 years in urban India.
The primary reason is that men have not been able to change with the times.
India has been a male dominated society and men have always EXPLOITED women.
Earlier the women had no choice as she was dependent on the man for food/clothes etc
and did not want to be a burden on her parents.
Now that women are financially independent why should they be treated like slaves?
They can now take their own decisions.
It is God's way of punishing these develish husbands and divorce them.
They still want to marry beautiful/hot/professional women and then expect them to do daily house hold work. The men themselves want to roam around the world (onsite/etc)/client visits etc and expect their counter part women to stay at home and cook food.
This is unfair .
All women should unite and divorce such useless ,worthless, sick minded, fickle minded husbands.
Divorce is definitely unpleasant but the only way for a woman to attain personal and professional freedom.Divorce in love marriages in the first year itself is very high(little less than 70% cases).
Come on girls!! If u r feeling upset about you marriage for more than 6 months then its time to look for another guy.
Believe me u will find lots of good guys who are single and willing to marry divorcee girls also provided the emotional bonding is strong.!!!
Being a divorcee girl is no longer a taboo in indian society.
Divorcee women are thought of as experienced , wise, mature and responsible women who were unlucky in their 1st marriage. Various marriage website's have been based on this concept only..
No need to fear.Come out and explore the world.
Never anything great has been achieved without enthusiasm.
Pls note:-Dont bow down to the husbands wishes nor get swayed away by his sweet talk.
If upset for more than 6 months then go for 'Divorce with mutaul consent' .This is the best way to get divorce in less than 13(12+1) months of marriage.The earlier you get divorced the better for you.The earlier u can relax and start looking for better grooms and men.
Believe me u will find lots of good guys who are single and willing to marry divorcee girls also provided the emotional bonding is strong.!!!
Being a divorcee girl is no longer a taboo in indian society.
Divorcee women are thought of as experienced , wise, mature and responsible women who were unlucky in their 1st marriage.
As for religion, Hinduism never allowed men to ill-treat their wives.
So dont think that what will GOD think?
If a man ill treats his wife then believe me God will ensure that he gets divorced soon and does get a new wife untill he improves and promises not to repeat the mistakes he has done in the past .
For those men who dont improve..they are doomed.
Have faith in GOD and take the best decision based on the circumstances u r facing.
Best of Luck!!
looks like we have a really frustrated woman here "Sk" commenting on the article....SK from your article i can make out the following:
1) u live in a metro city
2) u used to look smart and beautiful
3) ur husband used to on tour mostly and did not spend much time with u
4) u r a divorcee seeking new relationship but u urself are not able to get out ur pain.
i have some suggestions for u, first get your mental blocks cleared, if u in general think poorly of men u may never find a good partner (prejudiced), because to find a good partner u need to also give the person some respect. best of luck !!!
u idoit girls and woman i heat this articles. indian woman always depends the man .
i agree with the 2nd last post......clapping never happens with one hand,there are many situations where the woman/girl is at real fault,so instead of spilling poison for the opposite sex(as this will never end),we should look forward in providing better guidance for the couples so that they dont end up in distress.
remember this is not USA,and the alarming rise in divorce rates in India is not a very good thing to boast about.
70% love marriage becuase parents are never involved in decision and decision was based on infactualtion ...just mere bodily attraction and it never works out. All woman wants smart handsome tall confident guy. Eventually those guys have to take this responsibility and share themseleves with every woman :)
sk, i'm so sorry you think that way. i'm an indian woman married to an indian man who helps take care of the house, takes care of the baby and is respectful even though he earns the living. my brother is the same way to his wife, and so is my husband's brother. there are many many modern indian men like this, so i don't believe our culture is so backward. you just need to meet better men.
If divorce is the only option.. thn wher did the love...happiness...bonding you earlier had go??? My opininon is.. wen love s thick faults are thin...wen love is thin faults are THICKEST... U must always give some unconditional love to ur partner...wel...i wud lik to suggest a book for al of us to realize certain truth....n facts abt HUMAN BRAIN.. read "WHY MEN DONT LISTEN AND WOMEN CANT READ MAPS" BY "ALLAN,BARBARA PEASE"...beautiful book...i realised our ancestral impact in our eveything....please read once....
Well, the first post is of a person who is mentally unstable. Indian men were portrayed as devil. In fact, the lowest divorce rate can be attributed to India men too. India men have always taken care of wife, kids, parents and even family. And in most family, I have seen one man running the whole family. India men are considered for their trustworthiness and being loyal. Divorce is good option. Even in every religion, there is a provision for divorce where you husband or wife tortures you physically and mentally. Impotent or could not satisfy your carnal instinct. I am biggest supporter for divorce if the person is not mentally stable or abusive, but divorce on pity reason such as he is mama's boy,do not have enough friends, he is a loner, over possessive, not good at money. These are western influence for divorcing on silly reason. I am against that. The first post girl belongs to the category who is obsessed with every man which is mental disorder or person with negative energy who cannot be happy with anyone
Oh my God !I want to right something here i can say the women in India are suffering and monsters stay in city called Hyderabad ..yes this is true now m in US ,and my life is hell it will become more hell when i will come to india...i want to leave my husband but social restrictions from family and also the heart of indian women ....if god give me power for one day i will destroy my inlaws first of all...before marriage i am independent settled after marriage everything changes ..Telling you they are the monsters may god give them the death which nobody has seen before worst of worst.
There are some unbelievably neanderthal comments by, unfortunately, Indian Men to this article.
Firstly this is a very poor article with old data as stated previously, and secondly whether a marriage is arranged or "love", no man (indian or not!) has the right to abuse his partner in way! For any person to suggest that a "handsome" man has to spread himself around, and that women who have opinions and stand up for their rights are "crazy or man haters" just proves the the point that to this day most Indian males are misogynistic pigs who feel that wearing "western clothes" and having the latest techno gadgets will make their complete lack of emotional IQ.
I say good on the women of India today who have the guts and power to divorce these men, let it be a wake up call to these men and especially their families, who have failed to teach basic respect for women to their sons. Women will not be abused, and they are very capable of looking after themselves, married or not.
Friends, What ever be the reason divorce is a flaw on the minds of both the partners. It will never be fade away from the mind until the end of life. As a saying goes "Look before you leap" , "Prevention is better than cure" before marriage whether love marriage or arranged marriage both the would be partner should attend pre marriage counseling.
Mks 2 years ago
I agree but it is good atleast the time has come when old indian customs need to be finished and new customs to come.